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Hello!!  My name is John Boesky, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Master NLP Practitioner, Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Dharma Life Coach, and Sports Performance Consultant. I feel deeply passionately and sincerely devoted to guiding individuals, couples, families, groups, and athletes in ways that will empower them to achieve their personal goals and maximize their full potential. I LOVE my profession, and I find it incredibly rewarding to be of service to those who are truly committed to growing!

Individual Therapy
Marriage, Couples, Family, and Relationship Counseling
Life Coaching
Sports Performance Consulting


Years in Practice: 15+ years
License No. and State: LMFT #39666 California
Happily Married!!

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. And as we let our light shine, we give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

~ Marianne Williamson

Treatment Approach

I will enthusiastically serve as your partner and co-collaborator in our work together, and I will tailor my therapeutic approach to support your courageous endeavor to achieve your specific goals and desired outcomes.  In addition, I will give you my full attention and wholehearted empathy and compassion as we access your treasure trove of internal resources and wisdom to embolden you to live your best life.

I will also delight in sharing with you illuminating teaching pieces, provide you with astute and constructive feedback, and I will impart to you wisdom that I’ve acquired over many years from seminars, trainings, mentors, books, and personal life experiences that will enrich the quality of your life.  Moreover, I will engage you in traditonal and experiential exercises that will provide you with even greater self-awareness and other-awareness to expand your consciousness so that you see yourself, your relationships, and the world anew.

Successful therapy and life coaching are founded on safe, strong, and trusting therapeutic alliances. Given this, you can safely rest assured that I will happily go into the trenches with you; I will be by your side, and I will remain in your corner.  I will also compassionately challenge you at times because I believe that personal transformation often takes place when we stretch beyond our comfort zones. No passive therapy here!

Some Traditional and Experiential therapeutic techniques that I use include:

  • Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy
  • Gestalt
  • Psychodrama
  • Jungian
  • Family Systems
  • Psycho-Educational
  • Psycho-Dynamic
  • The Gottman Method for Healthy Relationships
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
  • Hypnotherapy (Not to worry – this isn’t scary!)
  • Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
  • Voice Dialogue Technique
  • Mindfulness-based Therapy
  • Sports Performance Consulting

If you’re currently feeling challenged in your relationships, or if you feel as though you’re not living up to your full potential as a man, woman, or athlete, please know and trust that I have the expertise and resources to support you.  You’re welcome to call me, e-mail me, or fill out the contact form below so that we can visit together in my office soon!!

Contact Me



5100 Marlborough Drive, San Diego, CA. 92116

Office Telephone: (619) 280-8099

Business Hours: (Monday & Wednesday) 12:00 am – 8:00 pm,  (Tuesday & Thursday) 12 pm-5:00 pm, (Friday) 9:00 am – 1:00 pm

I will respond to you within 24 hours (M-F) after receiving your contact information (please fill out the form on the left).  You’re also welcome to call me at 619.280.8099 or e-mail me at to arrange a brief, free phone consultation with me or to schedule an appointment time to meet with me in person.  If I’m unavailable or in session, kindly leave me a message and I will call you or write you back as soon as possible!!

Fee (per session): $150.00

Sliding Scale: In a select number of cases, yes

Accepted Payment Methods: American Express, Cash, Check, Mastercard, Visa

Accepted Insurance Plans:  Please note that most PPO plans will offer coverage or benefits even if I am outside of their network. As a courtesy to you, I will refer to you to my wonderfully helpful secretary, Kathy Wheatley, who will contact your insurance company to determine your coverage as well as send them invoices for our time together.