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Hello, and welcome to my website!!  My name is John Boesky, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Master NLP Practitioner, Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Dharma Life Coach, and Sports Performance Consultant.  I am deeply passionate about helping individuals, couples, families, groups, and athletes achieve their goals and realize their greatest potential. I always strive to be fully present with my clients, I do my very best to listen to them with genuine empathy and deep compassion, and I share with them my personal insights, knowledge, expertise, resources, and proven tools and techniques to guide them on their courageous quest for personal growth and transformation. I LOVE my profession, and I find it incredibly rewarding to be of service to those who are truly committed to growing! “It isn’t age that makes us wise, it’s that we choose to open our eyes.”

Individual Therapy Counseling
Marriage, Couples, or Relationship Counseling
Sports Performance Consulting
Group Facilitation

Years in Practice: 14+ years
License No. and State: LMFT #39666 California
Happily Married!!

Treatment Approach:

As my client, I will offer you a personalized approach, in which I will serve as your partner and co-collaborator. Everyone is different, so my approach for you will be tailored to best suit your needs and wants in order to realize your desired outcomes. In working in tandem with you, we will co-create an action plan that will assist you in accomplishing your stated goals. We will build on your strengths and draw upon your abundant resources. I will do everything that I can to make our time together feel like a sanctuary for you, inside which I will give you my full attention, genuine empathy, and deep compassion. In addition, I will offer you my insights, share with you transformational teaching pieces, and provide you with constructive feedback to help you achieve your personal and/or relationship goals. Finally, I will share with you the wisdom that I’ve accumulated over the years from seminars, workshops, mentors, and personal life experiences so that you will leave our sessions with invaluable takeaways that will substantially improve the quality of your life.

I believe that successful therapy is founded on a strong therapist/client relationship. In light of this, I want you to know that I’ll be willing to go into the trenches with you, and I’ll be proactive and vocal when when I offer you my counsel. At times, I will compassionately challenge you, as I believe that growth often happens outside of our comfort zones. No passive therapy here! In our therapy together, I will use both traditional therapy tools and techniques as well as more innovative, creative therapeutic tools and techniques.

Some Traditional therapeutic techniques that I use include:

  • Cognitive-Behavioral
  • Gestalt
  • Psychodrama
  • Jungian
  • Family Systems
  • Psycho-Educational
  • Psycho-Dynamic

Some innovative therapeutic tools and techniques that I offer include:

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
  • Hypnotherapy (Not to worry – this isn’t scary!)
  • Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
  • Voice Dialogue Technique
  • Mindfulness-based Therapy
  • Sports Performance Consulting

If you’re currently feeling challenged in your relationships, or feel as though you’re not living up to your full potential as a man, woman, or athlete, please know and trust that I have the expertise and resources to help you.

Please call me or fill out the contact form below so that we can set up an appointment to meet in person soon!!

Contact Me

Location: 5100 Marlborough Drive (San Diego, California 92116)

Office Telephone # (619) 280-8099

Business Hours: (M-TH) 11:00 am – 8 pm

(Friday) 9:00 am –  3:00 pm

I will respond within 24 hours (M-F) upon receiving your contact information (please fill out form on the left), and/or please call me for your free consultation!

Avg Cost (per session): $150.00

Sliding Scale: In certain cases, I will lower my fee to make therapy more affordable for you!

Accepts Insurance: I am not currently accepting insurance.  However, please note that most PPO plans will offer coverage or benefits even if I am outside of their network. As a courtesy to you, I am always happy to have my secretary, Kathy Wheatley, contact your insurance company to determine your coverage. If you are covered, your PPO plan will reimburse part or all of your therapy expenses back to you.

John Boesky’s Introductory Video:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

And as we let our light shine, we give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

~ Marianne Williamson